If, like me, you watch or have watched the series Suits, you know that the characters are vibrant and have particularly inspiring personalities. Whether it’s their wit, attitude, or character, both men and women give us ideas for personal development and determination. Today, let’s focus on Donna Paulsen. For those who don’t know her, this character is a model of confidence and class. Here are 5 personal development tips to learn from her character!
The art of being unique and indispensable
The first lesson to learn from Donna Paulsen’s character is that she is unique and knows how to make herself indispensable. Her personality is unconventional, impressive, sometimes a little intimidating. She knows how to use her soulful nature by creating connections with carefully chosen people, always thinking of the common good. Although she has few relationships, they are all deep, respectful, and trustworthy. Whether professionally or personally, she leaves no one indifferent and knows how to make an impression. We can be inspired by her by developing our confidence in ourselves and our strengths to be equally remarkable! In the context of work, especially, I believe we all have experiences proving the importance of not only being unique but also creating genuine relationships, at least with one trusted person!
Whatever happens, she is ready
From the early episodes, Donna has this “always prepared” side, always in the know. Almost perfect, which could annoy us because she thinks of everything. In her work, her ability to anticipate needs, analyze situations, and act accordingly always gives her an edge. However, this is not due to chance. “Talented” people are not solely endowed with gifts. Whether they admit it or not, these people all have one thing in common: they are prepared. In advance, they take the time to do what it takes to be up to the task when it matters. Donna does this. She knows how to observe, draw conclusions, and maneuver to achieve her goals. The best part? She does it in all circumstances and with discretion. The lesson to learn is, therefore, to prepare yourself. Whatever the goal, even if it’s just to improve your skills at work, learn to take the time to observe in order to choose your actions correctly.
She knows her limits and knows how to (im)pose them
“I have better things to do with my time than to be spoken to like this.” – Donna Paulsen
While in a law firm, her position may not be seen as the most important, she knows how to assert herself and earn respect. Whether in her role or as a woman, she doesn’t let anyone, not even her boss, the famous Harvey Specter, disrespect her. She is a free spirit who doesn’t hesitate to make necessary decisions when she no longer feels appreciated for her true worth. What she teaches us is to remain true to ourselves no matter what happens, while being aware of our value.
Elegant, stylish & irresistible
One of the first things we notice is Donna Paulsen’s incredible physique. Far from the idea of physically resembling her! But we can still emphasize the importance she places on the image she projects and the confidence it gives her. She has a stunning stride and masters the art of high heels, giving her a poised and statuesque look. Donna turns her femininity into an asset in a world where it could be interpreted differently. She is always well-groomed and leaves nothing to chance. Above all, she knows how to play up her charms and knows her strengths. This may be the most important element: knowing oneself well and knowing how to capitalize on what one has! Being aware of your charming qualities will not only increase your confidence, but also inspire more trust and desire!
Donna is self-assured and daring
“I won’t apologize for who I am.” – Donna Paulsen
She takes the lead because she knows herself well enough to know what she is capable of. Donna doesn’t pretend to be perfect for everyone, but when it comes to herself, she won’t apologize for who she is. She is aware of her qualities, flaws, and skills. That being said, she doesn’t boast; she confidently asserts what she knows about herself. Whether through her punchlines or her attitude, she is sharp, funny, and surprising. This is what allows her to tackle the challenges presented to her and even take the lead in difficult situations. The advice, therefore, is to dare to seize opportunities to give yourself a chance to unleash your potential.
